The Staggering Power of Our Perceptions – The good and the bad!
Every situation has many ways to look at it, so when presented with a situation, which way do you choose? Do you look for the good? Or do you look for the bad? Are you aware of what you create from...
View ArticleWords are cheap! Show me you mean what you say!
The real power in any successful relationship is in the power of action. There is little point two people saying they love each other and only one person taking the actions which equal love to their...
View ArticleRelationship Advice For Men
One of the ways to become an amazing partner for her is to understand your partner from her perspective. Too many men only see their world from their own perspective and when he does this she knows he...
View ArticleRelationship Advice For Women
Yesterday we spoke about helping men to be successful with their partners. Today the basic principle of putting yourself in the shoes of your partner is just as critical for her to do for him. In other...
View ArticleHow to stop your marriage from dying
Today I’m going share an insight that may help many of you avoid a pitfall I see on a regular basis and get many letters about. This is widespread and is killing relationships / marriages and...
View ArticleLet’s talk man-to-man
Many men struggle to understand their wives, partner, girlfriend. In fact this struggle for men is widespread and is such a frustrating place for him to be. He knows he loves her, but for him she acts...
View ArticleMen please listen to her with your eyes and connect with what you see
Todays post is to help men become successful with their partners. The fastest way to build the deepest trust is at the point of conflict. Men if you can do this she will see you as her man, her hero,...
View ArticleYour relationship is valuable so please look after it…
I see all relationships as the most valuable part of the human experience and I know those people who have chosen to work with me feel the same. I know if I were speaking from the children’s...
View ArticleI can’t carry on this way…
When a person trying to save their marriage feels they have done all they can to solve their problems, they have two choices. Stay in a marriage and accept their lot, or they can seek help. Divorce is...
View ArticlePartner wants to leave the marriage and you desperately want to save it…
If you find yourself in this situation there are some things you must not do if you want to keep them. You see the natural reaction is going to be to tell them it’s a terrible mistake, prove to them...
View Article“How can I trust you if you don’t even try to understand me?”
If a person wants to communicate with someone the only way to do that effectively is to understand them. To be an effective communicator you have to be a good listener you have to understand their...
View ArticleHe was losing his marriage and felt powerless to fix it…
I was on the phone to this gentleman last week, he had been going to see a marriage counsellor for a few months about a severe marriage problem and he was concerned that they were not making the...
View ArticleAre you passionate about your relationship? If so this is for you…
If you want your relationship/marriage to work then learning the answer to this question will be a monumental jump forward for any couple to explore. Question: What really has to happen for couples to...
View ArticleInfidelity, depression, suicidality
What do you do when a man enters your session telling you he’s afraid he will end up killing himself. He was breaking down and didn’t know how to stop it. So confused he came to me with a quest to...
View ArticleHow to move a relationship out of crisis?
If you are in crisis and you want to make a change in your relationship then it’s critical that the process of making that change is understood if you are to be successful. The most common scenario I...
View ArticleWant to solve your problems?
Do you feel that your problems are impossible to solve? Any individual or couple that have a problem they feel is impossible to solve is going to feel that way for one reason. They are keeping their...
View ArticleMarriage in Crisis? Has your partner fallen out of love with you and you want...
Todays post is a combination of what to do and what not to do if you want to save your relationship. The first action a couple has to take to see if it’s possible to rebuild their relationship is to...
View Article“Thank you for not giving up on me…”
These were the words from a woman that months before swore blind that her marriage was dead. She was thanking her husband for not giving up the fight to save his relationship and family. Months before...
View Article“My husband left me…” She had just given birth and was desperate
To set the scene: This lady was so attached to the life she though she was going to live, she had been putting up with terribly unkind and destructive behaviours from her husband. Desperate to get the...
View ArticleAre you valuable to your partner?
If anyone wants to create a relationship that’s successful and life long there are some simple principals that are key to follow. The overriding principal is to add value to your relationship in a...
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